{"id":159,"date":"2004-07-02T17:17:06","date_gmt":"2004-07-02T22:17:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.steelbuddha.net\/?p=159"},"modified":"2004-07-02T17:24:11","modified_gmt":"2004-07-02T22:24:11","slug":"definition-of-me-sober","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.steelbuddha.net\/?p=159","title":{"rendered":"Definition of me: Sober?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/hokev.brinkster.net\/quiz\/default.asp?quiz=Better+Personality&#038;page=1\">This personality test<\/a> is close, but there are some things I do not find in myself (naturally.) Examples: I&#8217;m not particularly fond of animals, sports, cars or jewelry. It&#8217;s quite a thought-provoking test. Thanks, once again, to Czelticgirl, who is not my wife.<\/p>\n<p><i>You are an SECL&#8211;Sober Emotional Constructive Leader. This makes you a politician. You cut deals, you change minds, you make things happen. 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